I don't think that's what it's for. I mean, I know it has lights and whatnot, but you can't just stick a camera on up there and start taking compelling footage.

This lady had to use a (specifically, clear) speculum to open her business and then use the stick thingy to film herself while she used a second thingy to do sex stuff to herself:

http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/vagcam-aka-see-my-vaginal-canal-during-orgasm/

So, yeah, I think it's just to masturbate while occasionally showing your loved one your general pubic region. But the sex toy fanatic in that video says it's not very good for masturbating though...so...yeah...

3/4/2015 11:24:57 PM

So has anybody videoed their business with this hilarious wand thing?


Seriously though, lady stuff:

1. Gap still sucks...except like extra bad now. They perpetually run 40% off sales, and everything they offer is just really, really not good.
2. All clothing manufacturers suck for promoting straight garbage as fashion for entirely too many years now. I don't want slouchy, see-through (for layering! ), unstructured, etc...and I definitely don't wanna pay a premium for that "style."
3. But...Old Navy's pixie pants are super cheap and not terrible!
4. Three Dots is still the bomb. I don't care what anyone says.
5. I discovered a BB cream (alternative) that's the best for me so far:

http://www.lancome-usa.com/Imanance/439768,default,pd.html

On its own, it didn't do well when my skin was excessively dry, but otherwise, it's been the best. Like, people have remarked on how (relative to others) awake I look and all that jazz.

6. These jeans from Madewell are pretty special, too:

https://www.madewell.com/madewell_category/DENIMBAR/highriserskinny/PRDOVR~B7131/B7131.jsp



I'm looking for sunglasses. I want some big ones--to cover my entire eye area--that won't touch my chubby cheeks. Please advise.

Also, anybody tried denim options from J. Crew recently? Belk stopped carrying Paige Denim, and I'm not pleased with the present brands' offerings.

[Edited on April 13, 2015 at 7:48 PM. Reason : ]

4/13/2015 7:39:25 PM

I still swear by american eagle jeans- artisan pants, I think, are the ones I bought two pairs of 'cos I love[d] 'em so much. I did, unfortunately, rip these as I put them on one morning when I was about 12 weeks pregnant. Goodbye size 0. It was nice knowing you. You'll probably become a distant memory for the rest of my life.

The JCrew jeans are too toothpick-y for me. I guess it's my age - but I just prefer a wide legged jean. Maybe because it makes my feet look smaller? (haha...ronald mcdonald syndrome?) Sorry [not sorry].

Have you all gone to swell.com? It's my new online store.http://www.swell.com I like to wear these kinds of clothes because it's as close as I can get to bridge the gap between total mom-jeans and teenage, low rise, buttcrack jeans.

Have y'all checked out thredup.com? They send you a bag and you can put a ton of your old clothes in it. Ship it back to them. Then they'll credit a paypal acct or give you a credit to their online consignment store. It's all brand/designer stuff. I have jcrew, banana, ann taylor normal stuff and that seems to be on their low end. They sell second hand ella moss, free people, etc. Which are my 2 favorite designers. http://www.thredup.com I'm going to send back my bag of stuff this week and I'll try to let you know what I get in exchange. I don't live near Raleigh (or any big city for that matter) anymore, so options like this are really the only feasible way for me to get cash for my old clothes.

4/13/2015 8:02:51 PM

Man Bridg...I love some GAP jeans. They're the only ones that love on my thighs the right way. Jcrew is very toothpick (WHICH IS WHY THEIR CUT IS CALLED TOOTHPICK), but I'd wear them if I could. They have exceptional denim!

I bought a pair of the pixie pants last week (black with white polka dots) and they're ok. They stretch out too mcuh which is my problem with Old Navy pants. I usually buy the GAP ultra skinny pants and they feel so good on! http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=1011765&vid=1&pid=349597002

I swear by an ankle pant though...that's all I wear.

4/14/2015 11:31:53 AM

Since moving to south bronx, my sister's style changed alot. What should I wear to blend in when I visit in July?
Is this the appropriate look?

4/15/2015 8:22:35 PM

Yes.

4/16/2015 9:23:01 AM

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"Yes."

4/16/2015 10:20:14 AM

The Lilly Pulitzer collection for Target is really good. I am not big on prints but I would wear some of this stuff.

4/19/2015 3:40:03 PM

I think it's an awesome pairing, but I'm still pretty surprised what they've done with the brand since she passed away. Kinda crazy to me how quickly changes were made.

4/19/2015 3:45:06 PM

I'm just disappointed it sold out so quickly. I have heard mixed reports of whether they plan on restocking. I would have liked to get a dress or bathing suit for my toddler, even if I couldn't get a dress for myself.

4/19/2015 4:17:32 PM

I'm not following that camera device, is it actually supposed to go inside the vagina? what guy really wants to see that, and otherwise I don't imagine it's too hard to go spread eagle with a cell phone

4/20/2015 1:14:05 AM

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"what guy really wants to see that"

for every subject you could ask this question about, there is a guy who actually wants to see that.

On the subject in question, think of it as your dick's POV. Why do you find this particular concept so repellent that you'd ask the question above?

orgasm aside, the image of a woman's vagina spread with a speculum and illuminated from within so that the cervix and vaginal walls are on display is also one observed umpteen thousand times a day as women all over the world have pelvic exams by medical professionals(and the fact that this one is clear is not special- almost every place I've been to for an exam used a plastic one, primarily because it is disposable).

Submitting to or giving a medical exam is a common theme in sexual fantasy.

From a non-sexual perspective, various 'understand your body/self' movements have advocated self-insertion of speculums to see this part of the female body for oneself with the aid of a mirror. I've never participated in that, but I can see how some people might be entertained by gaining knowledge, or it may even appeal to sapiosexuals.

4/20/2015 2:10:48 PM

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" Why do you find this particular concept so repellent that you'd ask the question above? "

I mean I wouldn't object to taking a look but the vagina is a pleasure hole, it's the external parts that turn guys on for the most part, inside you're just going to see some wet membrane leading up to the cervix

4/20/2015 2:32:44 PM

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"Submitting to or giving a medical exam is a common theme in sexual fantasy. "

I don't mind going to the gyno... my doctor is kinda hot.

4/20/2015 2:49:32 PM

I have no idea which charities it actually benefits, but Belk's doing the charity sale this Saturday from 6-10 AM.

I'm not a fan of this shopping season, but sales are always fun.

4/26/2015 9:06:34 PM

The charity sale is amazing. I just bought 6 new pairs of shoes so I'm going to sit this one out, BUT you should totes hit it up!

5/7/2015 9:50:25 AM

It was last Saturday. It was aight.

[Edited on May 7, 2015 at 1:01 PM. Reason : ]

5/7/2015 1:01:24 PM

My fashionSPARK crew is planning another clothing swap!

If you have some stuff you need to get rid of, I highly recommend stopping by!

https://www.facebook.com/events/837460136334560/

/buyanad

5/8/2015 10:42:11 AM

I think I am the only female (who enjoys clothes at least) that really really does not like the Lilly Pulitzer collection, maybe I have only seen the ugly stuff...

6/22/2015 11:04:22 AM

I think, just like any other line, there are some really ugly things, and things that are super over the top. I do like some of their dresses though.

Like this one: http://sugartown.scene7.com/is/image/sugartown/11226_resortwhite?wid=600&hei=600

And this one: http://sugartown.scene7.com/is/image/sugartown/99646_searuleanblue?wid=600&hei=600

But I would definitely never wear this: http://www.lillypulitzer.com/product/tops-bottoms/shorts-rompers/dixon-strapless-romper/pc/243/c/49/8279.uts?swatchName=Resort+White+Red+Right+Return

6/22/2015 11:14:13 AM

ehhhhh, yea it is cute for someone else, I don't think I would pick it out for me... but that dress is cute

[Edited on June 22, 2015 at 11:25 AM. Reason : ok, I did find one dress I would probably wear, but all the target stuff is UAF]

[Edited on June 22, 2015 at 11:26 AM. Reason : and that sailboat pattern is so damn ugly]

6/22/2015 11:23:47 AM

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"I think I am the only female (who enjoys clothes at least) that really really does not like the Lilly Pulitzer collection, maybe I have only seen the ugly stuff..."

I hate it all

[Edited on June 22, 2015 at 12:55 PM. Reason : $188 for a white dress ]

6/22/2015 12:54:28 PM

^yea the only stuff that I think is cute there is no way in hell I am paying for it

6/22/2015 1:03:54 PM

so I'm asking for a friend....

Anyone have any good suggestions for personal lube? Something that isn't super messy?

6/30/2015 12:37:58 AM

I like the original KY. Any of the fancy warming kinds or with scents, etc have caused negative reactions for me. I don't know about how to speak to the "non-messy"... typically when the lube is needed, things are getting messy.

6/30/2015 8:39:15 AM

so are we talking anal sex here

6/30/2015 12:53:02 PM

6/30/2015 12:56:33 PM

6/30/2015 1:00:55 PM

I'm past bluffing, pass the K-Y, Let's get ready for some intense serious ass fucking

6/30/2015 1:31:34 PM

I have some mint flavored stuff that works well for titty fucking

can't speak how good it is for anal. but i mean it's lube so...

6/30/2015 3:12:08 PM

Astroglide... although a woman told me this week that she freezes coconut oil in small balls and uses one at a time for lube. I never thought about it, but I think it's kinda genius.

6/30/2015 3:20:25 PM

^^

6/30/2015 3:49:43 PM

coconut oil?


[Edited on June 30, 2015 at 4:01 PM. Reason : ^ I'm too tall for you ]

6/30/2015 3:59:29 PM

Get the coconut balls out of the freezer babe

6/30/2015 4:04:53 PM

^^ Lets discuss it over lunch


Where is she inserting these frozen coconut balls?

6/30/2015 4:05:51 PM

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"Where is she inserting these frozen coconut balls? "

Sorry you never got the birds and the bees talk.

6/30/2015 4:51:20 PM

Sometimes when a mommy bird and a daddy bird have been together a long time they get bored and decide to try it in the butt

6/30/2015 4:58:20 PM

6/30/2015 5:11:58 PM

Why would she have to freeze the balls? Couldn't she just keep a jar by her nightstand?

7/1/2015 12:05:26 AM

^ You probably could most of the year. But right now my coconut oil is melted most of the time. It has such a low melting temperature, that freezing probably makes it less messy, and probably more pleasurable.

7/1/2015 10:48:30 AM

How do you start a conversation about freezing coconut balls and sticking them in your hoohaa?

7/1/2015 10:49:50 AM

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"Why would she have to freeze the balls? Couldn't she just keep a jar by her nightstand? "

I remember my high school girlfriend and I basically trying everything in the book when we started our sexual careers. Which means we tried everything our friends talked about and whatever she read in Cosmo. One of those things being oral sex with ice cubes in your mouth. I feel like I remember it being pretty fucking awesome...but back then, anything a girl did that involved touching my dick was awesome (which pretty much never stops).

I imagine this frozen coconut ball has similar pleasurable qualities.

Quote :

"How do you start a conversation about freezing coconut balls and sticking them in your hoohaa? "

"So I was reading in....."

Just make sure you don't mention t-dub.

[Edited on July 1, 2015 at 10:59 AM. Reason : .]

7/1/2015 10:58:41 AM

I too have had the ice blow job, and its fucking awesome.

7/1/2015 10:59:29 AM

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"How do you start a conversation about freezing coconut balls and sticking them in your hoohaa?"

While we were dancing naked together near the fire at a nudest colony this past weekend, I asked the lady about why she loved coconuts so much.

Gotta say, my life is pretty baller.

7/1/2015 11:06:08 AM

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"While we were dancing naked together near the fire at a nudest colony this past weekend "

This should have its own thread.

[Edited on July 1, 2015 at 11:24 AM. Reason : .]

7/1/2015 11:24:01 AM

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"While we were dancing naked together near the fire at a nudest colony this past weekend"

I'm listening and would like more information on this...

7/1/2015 11:56:21 AM

Who's hatin'?

7/1/2015 12:20:01 PM

yeah no one's hating, just intrigued if anything

7/1/2015 2:37:15 PM

So this is just a product review. I have crazy oily skin in the summer and I've been having a hard time finding a foundation that doesn't slide off my face after a few hours (I'm gross)

I did a quick google search and found this stuff got some good reviews and it was $5 at target so why not



I'm totally happy with this shit. I paired it with the NYX translucent finishing powder and NO OILY GROSS FACE. granted it's only noon but usually by now my face is all icky already.

so yea if anyone has that issue try this shit

I was previously using Laura Geller powder foundation which I LOVED but it is going to have to wait til it gets colder to go back to

7/16/2015 12:04:24 PM

Back to dancing naked in a nudist colony.

7/16/2015 12:20:33 PM